Quotes by Sydney J. Harris


Happiness is a direction, not a place.
– Sydney J. Harris
A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the past, he is one who is prematurely disappointed in the future.
– Sydney J. Harris
A winner rebukes and forgives; a loser is too timid to rebuke and too petty to forgive.
– Sydney J. Harris
Almost no one is foolish enough to imagine that he automatically deserves great success in any field of activity; yet almost everyone believes that he automatically deserves success in marriage.
– Sydney J. Harris
An idealist believes the short run doesn't count. A cynic believes the long run doesn't matter. A realist believes that what is done or left undone in the short run determines the long run.
– Sydney J. Harris
Any philosophy that can be put in a nutshell belongs there.
– Sydney J. Harris
Democracy is the only system that persists in asking the powers that be whether they are the powers that ought to be.
– Sydney J. Harris
Enemies, as well as lovers, come to resemble each other over a period of time.
– Sydney J. Harris
Every morning I take out my bankbook, stare at it, shudder-and turn quickly to my typewriter.
– Sydney J. Harris
If a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size?
– Sydney J. Harris
If the devil could be persuaded to write a bible, he would title it, You Only Live Once.
– Sydney J. Harris
Ignorance per se is not nearly as dangerous as ignorance of ignorance.
– Sydney J. Harris
In shape, it is perfectly elliptical. In texture, it is smooth and lustrous. In color, it ranges from pale alabaster to warm terra cotta. And in taste, it outstrips all the lush pomegranates that Swinburne was so fond of sinking his lyrical teeth into.
– Sydney J. Harris
Intolerance is the most socially acceptable form of egotism, for it permits us to assume superiority without personal boasting.
– Sydney J. Harris
It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others.
– Sydney J. Harris
Knowledge fills a large brain; it merely inflates a small one.
– Sydney J. Harris
Many a secret that cannot be pried out by curiosity can be drawn out by indifference.
– Sydney J. Harris
Men make counterfeit money; in many more cases, money makes counterfeit men.
– Sydney J. Harris
Middle Age is that perplexing time of life when we hear two voices calling us, one saying, Why not? and the other, Why bother?
– Sydney J. Harris
Ninety per cent of the world's woe comes from people not knowing themselves, their abilities, their frailties, and even their real virtues. Most of us go almost all the way through life as complete strangers to ourselves - so how can we know anyone else?
– Sydney J. Harris
Nobody can be so amusingly arrogant as a young man who has just discovered an old idea and thinks it is his own.
– Sydney J. Harris
Nothing is as easy to make as a promise this winter to do something next summer; this is how commencement speakers are caught.
– Sydney J. Harris
Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better.
– Sydney J. Harris
People who think they're generous to a fault usually think that's their only fault.
– Sydney J. Harris
Perseverance is the most overrated of traits, if it is unaccompanied by talent; beating your head against a wall is more likely to produce a concussion in the head than a hole in the wall.
– Sydney J. Harris
Somebody who never got over the embarrassing fact that he was born in bed with a lady.
– Sydney J. Harris
Sometimes the best, and only effective, way to kill an idea is to put it into practice.
– Sydney J. Harris
The beauty of spacing children many years apart lies in the fact that parents have time to learn the mistakes that were made with the older ones - which permits them to make exactly the opposite mistakes with the younger ones.
– Sydney J. Harris
The greatest enemy of progress is not stagnation, but false progress.
– Sydney J. Harris
The most important thing in an argument, next to being right, is to leave an escape hatch for your opponent, so that he can gracefully swing over to your side without too much apparent loss of face.
– Sydney J. Harris
The real danger is not that computers will begin to think like men, but that men will begin to think like computers.
– Sydney J. Harris
The three hardest tasks in the world are neither physical feats nor intellectual achievements, but moral acts: to return love for hate, to include the excluded, and to say, I was wrong.
– Sydney J. Harris
The time to relax is when you don't have time for it.
– Sydney J. Harris
The two words 'information' and 'communication' are often used interchangeably, but they signify quite different things. Information is giving out; communication is getting through.
– Sydney J. Harris
The whole purpose of education is to turn mirrors into windows.
– Sydney J. Harris
There's no point in burying a hatchet if you're going to put up a marker on the site.
– Sydney J. Harris
We have not passed that subtle line between childhood and adulthood until... we have stopped saying It got lost, and say I lost it.
– Sydney J. Harris
When I hear somebody sigh, 'Life is hard,' I am always tempted to ask, 'Compared to what?'
– Sydney J. Harris
When we have 'second thoughts' about something, our first thoughts don't seem like thoughts at all - just feelings.
– Sydney J. Harris
When you run into someone who is disagreeable to others, you may be sure he is uncomfortable with himself; the amount of pain we inflict upon others is directly proportional to the amount we feel within us.
– Sydney J. Harris
Never take the advice of someone who has not had your kind of trouble.
– Sydney J. Harris
Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
– Sydney J. Harris
The primary purpose of a liberal education is to make one's mind a pleasant place in which to spend one's leisure.
– Sydney J. Harris