A women under stress is not immediately concerned with finding solutions to her problems but rather seeks relief by expressing herself and being understood.
– John Gray
All men and women have an equal need for love. When these needs are not fulfilled it is easy to have our feelings hurt, for which we blame our partner.
– John Gray
Generally speaking, when a woman offers unsolicited advice or tries to help a man, she has no idea of how critical and unloving he may sound to him.
– John Gray
Just as women are afraid of receiving, men are afraid of giving.
– John Gray
Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed. Women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished.
– John Gray
To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he doesn't know what to do or that he can't do it on his own.
– John Gray
When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom.
– John Gray
It is not giving children more that spoils them; it is giving them more to avoid confrontation.
– John Gray
The process of learning requires not only hearing and applying but also forgetting and then remembering again.